Lately, we have noticed many cases of divorce that do not even last a year of marriage. After all the effort, preparations, and expenses people spend, the marriage doesn’t even reach one year. So, whose fault is it?
We have observed recently that many households end their lives in divorce before they even really begin. So, what is the reason?
The truth is, the causes of a failed marriage often start before the marriage itself.
Many brides say, “During the engagement period, I didn’t really want to continue, but my family pressured me, or because of what people say, or I thought he might change.”
But in reality, no one really changes. ????
Some girls don’t spend enough time during the engagement period and marry after two or three months without having had the chance to truly get to know their fiancé.
Others stay engaged for a long time but still don’t really get to know their fiancé well; the engagement period exists but without real interaction.
Some girls don’t know the characteristics they want in their life partner to decide if those qualities suit them or not.
And we shouldn’t always blame the bride.
Sometimes the husband is angry, irresponsible, spoiled by his family, and expects his wife to treat him like his mother did.
Or he might be a drug addict.
Or he might be too young and lacks the maturity to handle situations with wisdom and empathy.
Or he might have no strong personality because his parents control his life even after marriage.
All these are reasons that can cause a marriage to fail within the first year.
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